From Dreams to reality

The 6 Reasons Why We Fail

Most of the people by knowingly and unknowingly doing the thing in the wrong way. And it can be numerous reasons for it. There is also a certain thing that most people always neglect in their life. And the return of it they just don't get what they want. For my point of view, I don't think there is any formula for success. Because everyone has a different point of view regarding success. But if you find, you are not getting your desired results then there maybe a couple of reasons for it that I have listed down. 

•  No Written Goal: Most of the people don't have written goals. They just go with the flow. A number of studies proved that there is a connection with writing goals and success. Writing down your goals will remind of what you want to achieve in your life. It will also help to find out which opportunity is better for you and which is not.
• No Serious Commitment: I get to know about the difference between promise and commitment from the book "You Can Win by Shiv Khera". In his book, Mr. Shiv Khera written that Promise is an agreement with the world but Commitment is an agreement with yourself. Take commitment for yourself and things will change drastically. 

   

• Laziness: No one like a lazy person. But the question arises why few peoples are lazy. I think the biggest reasons for this cause can be an improper diet and deficit of body exercise. One reason may be not having a clear goal.

•  Constant Blaming: Do you blame your teachers, friends, teachers, etc? If yes then please don't do that. There is a reason behind it why I am telling you this. The reason is when you blame someone then you are not looking in yourself. You constantly looking negative side of someone thought or action. This will never grow you. Firstly you should observe the situation and ask questions like, Am I wrong or someone else is?

• Know Everything: You may find any individual in your group circle who reacts like he knows everything. And later you realize that this person doesn't have knowledge about the subject. How do you feel for that type of person- Bigmouthed? Mostly this type of people doesn't respect the thoughts of others. If you give him a new perspective or idea then he will ignore it and he will focus on his past beliefs and act like he knows everything.

• Depend Upon Other's efforts: Be independent and do your work by yourself. If you are continuously dependent upon friend's efforts then you will not get the confidence of doing that work which was done by your friend. You know being independent is very important for leadership. The person who takes all his responsibilities on his shoulder will grow in his life as well. And there is a higher chance that an independent person will get success in his life.